Who am I?
Hey there, lovely souls! I’m Judy a mom and grandma on a wild mission to shake things up and make the world a little brighter. So, here’s the scoop – got hit with the C-word (yep, cancer) back in January 2020. Now, most folks thought I was off my rocker for saying no to the usual treatments. Fast forward to March 2024, and guess what? I’m still here, kicking it after strolling through beautiful B.C.
Tried to pull off this epic walk across Canada, but reality check – it turned into a B.C. exclusive. Support was kinda MIA, and I shed more pounds than I’d like to admit. Landed in Alberta looking like a shadow of myself, but you know what? Still alive and thriving, scars and all.
Beyond the cancer saga, I’m all about sparking change. I took a swing at inspiring Peace Tables, aiming to sprinkle a bit of understanding and kindness. Okay, maybe I didn’t hit a home run, but I’m not throwing in the towel.
So, join me on this crazy ride where I flip the bird to life’s curveballs, dance in the rain, and keep on truckin’. Life’s a rollercoaster, and I’m here for the adventure. Come along, and let’s add a splash of color to this world.
Cheers to defying the odds! Judy
The Peace Table:
turning Disagreements agreements without compromise
Everyone Admits Their Wrong
At the heart of the Peace Table lies a transformative process designed to resolve conflicts by fostering understanding, compassion, and ultimately, mutual agreement. The journey begins with a profound acknowledgment – all parties willingly admit to being wrong about something, creating a shared foundation for growth.
What do you want?
Root Desires: The next step unravels the core desires of each party. By repeatedly asking, “What do you want?” and exploring the subsequent layers of responses, a universal truth emerges – beneath divergent views, every human yearns for love and peace. This realization forms the common ground from which the conversation blossoms.
Trackers Tracking
Monitored Conversations: Facilitated discussions are conducted with the aid of trackers who remain impartial observers. Their sole intervention is to pause conversations when triggers arise. This deliberate interruption serves as an opportunity for triggered individuals to regain composure, fostering an environment of respect, love, and emotional healing.
Triggers & Traumas
Transition from Problem to Solution: Triggers, often rooted in past traumas, are approached not as obstacles but as opportunities for growth. The process encourages individuals to navigate from problem to solution, using triggers as stepping stones towards a healthier mindset.
Listening To Learn
Listening to Learn: Parties engage in active listening with a genuine intent to understand the other’s perspective. As triggers are embraced constructively, the journey unfolds towards a space where solutions can be explored, and a harmonious resolution becomes achievable.
Respect
Healing Through Respect: Respect and love become the guiding forces during triggering moments, promoting emotional healing and a deeper understanding. The transition from discord to amicable resolution embodies a profound transformation that extends beyond the immediate conflict.
The Win/Win
Win/Win Solutions: Contrary to compromise, the Peace Table seeks win/win solutions. It emphasizes that the path to mutual agreement leads to the discovery of solutions previously obscured by disagreement. It is a paradigm shift from adversarial standpoints to collaborative problem-solving.
unknown Solutions
The Unknown Revealed: The process recognizes that the answers humanity seeks often lie within our disagreements. The journey through disagreement opens the door to previously unexplored solutions, unveiling the unknown possibilities that await when conflicts are navigated with love, understanding, and a commitment to shared well-being.
